The words 'Spread 'em' won't always turn you on, but when they do, you're probably talking about Sei Mio's Spread The Love Spreader Bar!

As a tool to keep your or their arms and/or legs apart, Spread The Love works like a charm. The semi-flexible stability bar features built-in ankle cuffs at either end and D-ring connectors for the included (separate) wrist cuffs.

Whether you're playing with two padded, comfy cuffs or all four, the cuffed-up partner can use the bar for neck, arm, chest, and leg support, or the non-cuffed partner can use it to help stabilize certain positions.

*The Spreader Bar is 17.3'/44cm long, and the cuffs adjust to fit most.